Great ideas for caregivers and patients alike. Everyone needs a moment to chill...
Deep Breath/Tense, Exhale/Relax, Yawn
- Clench your fists; breathe in deeply and hold it a moment.
- Breathe out slowly and go limp as a rag doll.
- Start yawning.
Additional points: Yawning becomes spontaneous. It is also contagious, so others may begin yawning and relaxing too.
Heartbeat Breathing For Relaxation
Before you do this, if you are unsure about how to find and count your pulse rate (usually radial pulse at the wrist), ask your nurse to help you.
- Take a deep, comfortable breath.
- Close your eyes or focus on your hands.
- Count your radial pulse (at the wrist) for two beats.
- Inhale while you count the next two beats.
- Exhale while you count the next three beats.
- Inhale and exhale in this manner several times.
Additional points: You can do this quickly if you are suddenly anxious or fearful. You can do this without drawing attention to yourself. The pulse (heart) rate usually slows noticeably.
Humor For Relaxation
Laugh when you hurt? Hurting is rarely funny, but people who hurt sometimes find that occasional humor is one of the most effective ways to deal with pain. Why not try some of the following?
- Watch television programs that are really funny to you.
- Listen to recordings by comedians that you find hysterical.
- Read books that make you laugh.
Something funny can certainly be distracting, but its value seems to go beyond a momentary redirection of thoughts. Humor may produce relaxation.
For example, when you laugh, it is almost impossible to maintain muscle contraction. A simple example of this is when two or more people attempt to lift a heavy object in unison. One of them may be in charge of coordinating the efforts. That person counts or gives some cue to signal everyone to lift at the same time. But if they laugh, they fail. The result is familiar: the lifters become limp, drop the object, and sometimes actually fall to the floor. Laughter causes skeletal muscle relaxation; the skeletal muscles become too limp to hold or lift an object.
When Norman Cousins reported on his painful illness, he noted that 10 minutes of belly laughter resulted in 2 hours of sound sleep. Many have speculated about the reason. Could laughing have relaxed him?
Patient/Family Teaching Point: Jaw Relaxation
- Let your lower jaw drop slightly, as though you were starting a small yawn.
- Keep your tongue quiet and resting in the bottom of your mouth.
- Let your lips get soft.
- Breathe slowly, evenly, and rhythmically: inhale, exhale, rest.
- Allow yourself to stop forming words with your lips and stop thinking words.
Additional points: This technique may reduce both pain and distress, especially postoperatively.
May be duplicated for use in clinical practice. From McCaffery, M. and Beebe, A: PAIN: CLINICAL MANUAL FOR NURSING PRACTICE, St. Louis, 1989, The CV Mosby Company.
What do you think? Feeling relaxed now?
~ Ann and Sara